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The Respect App – technology, our kids & us

Mia-Von-Scha-kids2-150x150by Mia Von Scha, Transformational Coach, motivational speaker, children’s author, student to two Zen Masters (aka kids), avid cloud watcher and lover of life.

There’s a lot of grumbling amongst the parents of modern teenagers about their lack of communication skills and the amount of time spent ignoring their parents in favour of their technological relationships. And I’m really hoping there are some parents of little kids reading this too, because this problem inevitably starts when they’re much much younger, and it starts with you!

Kids learn by example. I’m sure you’ve heard that one before! So watch your own and your partner’s behaviour around technology. Do you switch on your laptop before you’ve even said good morning? Do you shut your kids out while you quickly catch up on some emails? Do you take calls when they’re busy speaking to you?

How about leaving your emails until they’ve gone to bed, ignoring the calls or even better, switching your phone off and giving them your full attention?

I think all families should have technology-free time and the earlier you initiate this, the An-App-Called-Respectless resistance you’ll have as they grow older and the better habits they will pick up. Make dinnertime a technology-free time for everyone in the family. This is one of the most important things you can do in terms of keeping an open channel of communication in your family – no phones, no laptops, no TV. And try to make at least one holiday a year a techno-free time too – go to the bush where there’s no signal and no electricity, go overseas without roaming, or simply insist on all technology being left behind.

We need to teach our kids how to communicate without these things, to really connect, and this can only happen if we do it ourselves!

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DIY Kids: Secret Messages with Glitter and Glue

shan-headshot-cuby Shannon Walbran Niebuhr  is our DIY Kids columnist.  She is a mommy blogger who also offers creativity classes for parents, teachers, and nannies to encourage more effective play with children.

Today’s project takes “glitter art” to the next level: making it into a pre-reading activity by drawing secret messages with the glue stick.

What You’ll Need:

  • construction paper or typing paper
  • glitter or fine dyed salt
  • glue stick
  • Step 1:

    Jozikids sprinkle Collage

    Doing art with glue sticks and glitter is a classic pre-school activity.  It works on fine-motor coordination as the child unscrews the glue stick cap, smears glue on the paper, and shakes glitter or salt onto the surface.

    Large motor skills get developed as the child lifts the paper and shakes the glitter off (preferably into a cup so it could be used on the next project!)

    Jozikids art done Collage

    Step 2:

    Taking glitter art to the next level, this now becomes a pre-reading activity.  You, the adult, take the glue stick and write a secret message on to the paper.  Then hand it over and let the child discover the message by pouring the glitter on and revealing the secret!

     jozikids glitter words Collage

    What secret message would you write? You could also do shapes, numbers, or a picture. Leave us a comment below and tell us how this project turned out for you.

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    DIY Kids: Angel Xmas tree-topper from a toilet paper roll

     

    by Shannon Walbran Niebuhr, our DIY Kids columnist.  Shannon is a mommy blogger and offers crafting and play classes to parents, teachers, and nannies.

    Today’s craft is a Christmas classic: an angel tree-topper, made from a small piece of cardboard such as a toilet paper roll.  You could make a whole choir of these angels and place them on a shelf or mantel.  They are quick, cute, and upcycled.

     

    What You’ll Need:

  • toilet paper roll
  • colored card or paper
  • scissors
  • tape
  • markers, kokis, or crayons
  • a yellow sticky note / Post-it Note
  • a plastic doily if you want lace wings, or a piece of stiff fabric like felt, or more paper
  • Step 1: Make the angel’s body

    Lay the cardboard tube onto a colored piece of paper or card.  Roll it up and cut it to size, and then tape it in the back.

    Step 2: Make the wings

    Take the plastic doily and measure it against the tube.  Cut a rainbow shape (an arc) so the top of the arc is the height of the tube.  Center the tube on the arc and tape it into place.

     Step 3: Make the head

    Cut a piece of white paper the width of one-third the tube.  Roll up this paper, draw a face on it, and tape it into place.

    Step 4: Add a halo

    Cut a circle from a yellow post-it sticky note.  Tuck the circle into the top of the angel’s head.  Tape it at the back to secure.

    Step 5:  Top your tree!

    Merry Christmas from DIY Kids!

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    DIY Kids: 3 Personalised, handmade gifts – placemats, pot holders, and a bottle tote

    by Shannon Walbran Niebuhr, our DIY Kids columnist.  Shannon teaches crafting and play classes to parents, nannies, and school staff.  She writes about parenting on her blog.

    Today’s DIY Kids project aims to produce a personalised gift for someone you and your children love, such as a grandparent or an aunt.  There are three gifts in this tutorial arranged in order of skill:  easy, harder, and challenging!

    As the main ingredient, we’re using an item easily found at a charity shop or in the sale rack at a discount store:  2 quilted placemats.  By re-purposing these placemats, you can make either a) personalised placemats, b) pot holders, or c) a tote to carry a gift bottle of wine, juice, or olive oil to a party.

    What You’ll Need:

  • 2 quilted placemats
  • fabric paint
  • a paper plate or a vegetable tray for the paint
  • sewing machine and/or needle & thread
  • Step 1: Placemats

    Place a large dollop of paint on a paper plate or polystyrene veggie tray.  Encourage your child to dip his hand in the paint and make a handprint on the placemats.  Depending on the child’s age, you could make a pattern or just print them randomly, as we did here:

    The result is gift option one: hand-printed placemats!

    Step 2: Pot holder

    A quilted placemat folded in half twice makes a great hot pot holder.  You could sew the edges together if you wish, but it’s more of a re-naming or re-purposing.

    Step 3: Create a tote, first in a simple way …

    A tote is a bag, with or without a handle.  Start by putting the mats together, printed sides facing in.  Sew all the way around three sides, leaving one short side open.  Turn it inside out, and you have a standing bag.

    Step 4: A more complicated tote

    To make an even more professional-looking tote, you could choose to “box the corners” at the bottom of the bag and also cut a large handle into each side of the top of the bag.

    Boxing the corners means making little bunny ears, sewing across them, and then cutting them off.  It makes the bottom of the bag flat.

    To create a handle, sew a huge buttonhole with your machine:  zigzag down the long ends, and do a sturdy stitch about 10 times at each tiny end.  Use a sharp scissors to cut a slit through, where your hand can then go.

    If you have any questions about making these projects, please leave a comment below and I’ll do my best to clarify the tutorial.  Have fun!

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    DIY Kids: Make your own hula hoop

    by Shannon Walbran Niebuhr, our DIY Kids columnist.  Shannon is a mommy blogger and crafter who offers DIY classes for parents and caregivers.

    Today’s craft is money-saving, healthful and fun.

    Hula hoops that you buy in a toy shop never work for taller kids or adults because the hoop is far too small.  A hoop has to go all the way up to your chest, or even up to your neck, to really swing it.  If you add weight to the hoop, it can actually work your abs and core muscles.  Let’s hoop!

    What You’ll Need

  • a trip to the hardware store
  • black plastic irrigation tubing
  • a connector
  • a cup of water
  • duct tape
  • Step 1: Go to the hardware store

    Ask where they keep the black plastic irrigation tubing, for gardens.

    Step 2: Cut it to size

    Choose the 1 cm tubing, and make a circle of it so it meets between your chest and your neck.  Ask the hardware store employee to cut it for you.  My tubing cost me R18.

    Step 3: Buy a connector, but take the whole thing home first

    This is what the connector looks like.  It is a “male-male” and will help you close the loop.  My connector cost me R3.

    It is inserted into one side of the loop, but I’m taking it home to…

    Step 4: Add a cup of water to the pipe and seal it up.

    Adding water gives the hoop some weight, and that makes it much easier to swing than a light, flimsy hula hoop.

    Connect the tube to the red connector and then seal it with duct tape.

    I am 155 cm tall, and the hula hoop is 110 cm in diameter. See how it is as tall as my chest?

    Step 5: Swing it!

    Try it for ten minutes at first, listening to music.  Raise and lower your arms.  Once you get good at it, you can hoop for up to 30 minutes.

    You might get a sore spot on your waist or hip, but for me that went away after three days.  Keep at it and we’re sure to see a stronger core.

    Please leave us a comment or post a picture if you’ve made your own hula hoop!

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    Family theatre and indoor activities

     If you haven’t discovered it yet, Jozikids.co.za is the most up to date and detailed resource for parents in the Gauteng region to find what you need including events, activities, venues, parties and lessons. You’ll also find us on your cell phone, twitter and Facebook

    FAMILY THEATRE

     Jack and the Beanstalk Joburg Theatre, Braamfontein, Nov 2-Dec 30. Starring Tobie Cronje as the villain, Desmond Dube as the Dame, Bongi Mthombeni as Jack, Carly Graeme as Raspberry Rose, Nandi Nyembe as Mayoress Fumblebum and Louise Saint-Claire as Fairy Fenella Fynbos.

    The Little Mermaid JR, Braamfontein, Nov 5-Dec 23, Meet the cheerful little mermaid Ariel whose dream is to become a human and meet her Prince and marry him. Sebastian, the quirky loveable Crab, Jetsom and Flotsam, the slippery eels and Ursula the cunning octopus who steels Aerials voice will transform the theatre to a fantasy undersea world that would make you wish you could live under the sea. You will love the stunning costumes, the talented cast, the inventive set and familiar Disney songs you and your kids can sing along to.

    Annie Jr at Children’s Theatre, Parktown – Nov 5-Dec 23. Bring the entire family and join Annie and her pint-sized cohorts on the musical adventure of a lifetime. This charming classic includes popular songs such as “It’s a Hard Knock Life”, “Easy Street”, “You’re Never Fully Dressed Without a Smile” and of course “Tomorrow”. The music, dancing and heart-warming story make this the perfect way to spend the holiday season.

    INDOOR ACTION- YOUNGER KIDS

    Mungolistix Centurion, open 7 days a week, 9am-5pm. Indoor Playground a premier Indoor Adventure Playground that offers supervised, secure facilities for toddlers and children from 0 months to 7 years old. We provide parents with a safe and clean environment where their children can learn and have fun at the same time

    Yeesh! Fun for kids ( 1-12 yrs) , Woodmead and Bryanston North Johannesburg. Parents come and relax while your children play in a upmarket coffee bar with adult music to listen to, magazines to read or just enjoy the ambiance. Children are kept occupied on a large two story obstacle course – jumping castle, trampoline, ball ponds etc. They can also paint a piece of pottery to take homeIndoor Playground a premier Indoor Adventure Playground that offers supervised, secure facilities for toddlers and children from 0 months to 7 years old. We provide parents with a safe and clean environment where their children can learn and have fun at the same time

    Kays Place ( 1-10yrs), Stoneridge Johannesburg, Indoor Adventure Playground , Supervised secure facilities for toddlers and children from 6 months to a maximum height of 1.4m. There’s a 100m2 Jungle Gym, ball ponds, jumping castles and so much more!  A separate toddlers section for children under 3 years  A “Drop & Shop” service for children 3 years and older.A coffee shop offers delicious cakes, light meals and beverages. Moms – bring a friend and catch up over a cup of coffee, or read a magazine while your children play

    Jump N Play ( birth-13 yr)   Northriding Fourways-  Indoor playground with childminders, lounge and coffee shop for parents. Faciilities include two level jungle gym, jumping castles, football pitch, trampoline and a free play area.  Plus for the older kids or adults – a high tech interactive gaming system called EyePlay plusWii and XBox

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    Places to visit on the Women’s Day long weekend

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    ANIMALS
    Womens Day at Pretoria Zoo – Aug 9-12. Women pay half price, instead of  R60, R30 for ladies, R60 for men and R40 for kids. Surprise activities on the day. Call for opening times

    Mystic Monkeys, Pienaarsrivier, Aug 9-12. Mystic Monkeys and Feathers Wild Animal Park hosts one of South Africa’s largest private Primate collections featuring 44 species, in addition to a large number of beautiful exotic Birds and Predators such as White Lions, Bengal Tigers and Cheetah. Open from 9am-4pm.

    ACTION
    Acrobranch Centurion, Glen, Aug 9-12. Acrobranch at The Big Red Barn is an adventure through a wonderful forest of eucalyptus trees. From ziplines to nets and barrels to fight on through, it is an exhilarating and fun experience for children as young as 3 years old to experience.  Times: Womens Day 10am- 3pm, Sat & Sun 10am-3pm

    Acrobranch Melrose, Aug 9-12.

    Wonderwall Kya Sands, Aug 9-12.
    Indoor wall climbing facility. Whether you are a beginner climber or a seasoned veteran of the crag Wonderwall has all the facilities to suit you. From 9am-6pm

    FISHING
    Trout Season Winter Warmer, Sundowner Adventures, Magaliesburg, Jul 25-Aug 30. Trout fishing season is here! What better way to entertain the kids this school holiday than with an introductory fly fishing clinic. Escape the cold and head to Magaliesberg. 
    9am-1pm, from 5yrs.

     

    GARDENING
    Growing an Edible Garden – Muldersdrift, Aug 9. Join Talborne Organics & Jane for an interesting talk, she will cover the basics of organic gardening, incl. time saving techniques & space saving tips. From learning about the importance of healthy soil to finding out how to confuse the bugs – this is the talk to attend if you want to get growing!

     

    Family events for Father’s Day and Youth Day

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    FATHER’S DAY

    Cedar Junction, Zwavelpoort, Pretoria East 8am-5pm. Live musician, mini train rides, jumping castles, trampoline, pedal boats & more. Fishing Competition (Catch & Release) competition. Bring own fishing rod, bait, chairs, 2 prizes to be handed out on the day. Full restaurant available,

    Lipizzaner Kyalami, Jun 17, 10.30am and 2.30pm. The stallions will be strutting their stuff to the dramatic music from James Bond!

    Saddle Creek Ranch, Hekpoort, Jun 16-17, From 11am ‘Action Dad’ Fathers Day Special. Complimentary orange juice on arrival,1 hour horse trail ride, 40 minute quad trail ride, picnic lunch with a couple of beers and dinky bottle of Champagne for the lady. A Saddle Creek Cap, CD of photos to take home and an ‘Action Dad’ T-shirt. Kids from 5 yrs can also participate in horse riding and quad trail ride.

    Zeal Challenge for Dads, Equal Zeal, Faerie Glen Pta Jun 17th, 9am-12.30pm
    Zeal Adventure w/ Dads, Equal Zeal, Centurion, Jun 16-17, Sat 10am-Sun 1pm

    Aimed at giving Dad’s relationship with his children no 1 priority, it is a motivational package whereby Dad alongside his child will be working through activities and challenges together, strengthening relationships and learning to know each other on a different level. Dad and child will set goals and thus each family will gain a slightly different end result.

    Click here for a more extensive list of Father’s Day activities

    YOUTH DAY

    Acrobranch- Centurion. 9am-6pm on Sat and Sun. Acrobranch at The Big Red Barn is an adventure through a wonderful forest of eucalyptus trees. From ziplines to nets and barrels to fight on through, it is an exhilarating and fun experience for children as young as 3 years old to experience.

    Wiggle Waggle Day at Stonehaven, Vanderbijl Park, Jun 16. A day full of doggie and family fun right on the banks of the Vaal River. Join 3km walk (9am) with only the ducks to bother you thereafter light entertainment:- doggie competitions with good prizes, dog obedience demonstrations,dancers, David Van Vuuren (2011 Idols Winner), Freddie Van Dango (Idols 2011 Finalist), Bouwer Bosch and more! food stalls, garden restaurant, pub & tea garden. River Cruises and lots of complimentary entertainment for the children

    Shaguma GardenCafe and Restaurant, Crowthorne, Midrand. 8am-7pm Tues-Sun. Situated in the lovely Memories Corner Shopping Village in Crowthorne, The restaurant provides flavourful yet health conscious Mediterranean cuisine . There is also a  jumping castle ,table soccer  & playground for kids.

    Fun Run/Walk Pretoria Zoo, Jun 16. Take part in the Friends of the Zoo Fun Run/Walk. It is a 5km circuit around the tranquil setting of the Zoo. The Fun Run/Walk is held every third Saturday of the month. Entrance opens at 6.00am and the Walk starts at 6.30am.

    Mother’s Day events & parenting workshops

    If you haven’t discovered it yet, Jozikids.co.za is the most up to date and detailed resource for parents in the Gauteng region to find what you need including events, activities, venues, parties and lessons. You’ll also find us on your cell phone.

    MOTHER’S DAY OUTINGS

    Lipizzaner Stallion Centre, Kyalami, May 12-13. The white stallions will be dancing to the fantastic music from Mama Mia

    Madd Hatters Tea Garden, Doornranjie, Hennopsriver May 13, 10am-5pm. Come and join us for a mothers day lunch..(with a gift for mom) Lasagna,salad,rolls, with mad hatter platter and drinks! The ladies can relax while the boys play paintball @ Bush Paintball. And the kids can play on the jungle gym and feed the animals.

    Princess Alice Adoption Home, Westcliff, May 12, 10 am-4pm, R125 pp. Treat your mother, aunt, sister and yourself to pampering in our Pamper Parlour. Packages include mini manicure, arm/shoulder massage and head/shoulder massage. Refreshments will be available in the tea garden for you to enjoy while listening to light musical entertainment.

    WS Botanical Garden, Roodepoort, May 13 from 1pm. This is a concert that celebrates all mothers—the most important people in everyone’s life. Please arrive early and bring along your picnic baskets, blankets or chairs. The City Swing Fever Big Band will be performing.

    SHOW FOR HIGH SCHOOL PUPILS

    Waiting for GODOT at the Old Mutual Theatre on the Square, Sandton, May 6th, 9th and 14th
    Producer Daphne Kuhn has invited Crawford College Sandton to perform their recent production of WAITING FOR GODOT – and to present it for high schools.

    PARENTING HELP

    Discipline & Self Esteem, Parenting Magazine Irene Dairy Farm, May 12, 8.30am-1pm, R200 pp. Parenting Magazines presents, Dereck Jackson in Irene Farm Pretoria, where he will be speaking on Discipline and Self Esteem. Enjoy A relaxing morning in great surroundings, a 10 minute pampering session, awesome prizes up for grabs as well as a fantastic goodie bag.

    Ladies Image & Deportment wkshp, La Femme, Kyalami, May 12., 9am-4pm. R750 pp. Basics: sitting, standing, walking up/down stairs, posture. Maintaining your body: Body shape and understanding your body weight. Skin care and makeup. Cupboard planning: Fashion styles to suit you, Body proportions & dressing accordingly, Colour wear, power dressing. Body Language, Voice control,  presentations, interviews, Social Skills – Etiquette

    Free Day for Senior Citizens at Pretoria Zoo, Tues, May 8. The Zoo will be hosting senior citizens older than 60 years and offering them free entry to the Zoo, the Aquarium and the Reptile Park. The day’s activities begin with complimentary tea, coffee and biscuits at the Zoo’s Flamingo Restaurant (first-come-first-served) where after a programme of events will be presented. A special meal will also be prepared by our Restaurant for the day

    Where to go on the Freedom Day long weekend

    If you haven’t discovered it yet, Jozikids.co.za is the most up to date and detailed resource for parents in the Gauteng region to find what you need including events, activities, venues, parties and lessons. You’ll also find us on your cell phone.

    ANIMALS

    Birthday Celebration at Montecasino Bird Garden – Apr 27 8.30-4pm
    The Montecasino Bird Gardens, is celebrating its 11th Birthday. Children can enjoy the “Flight of Fantasy” bird show while enjoying sweets, treats, and birthday cake. JT the Jelly Tots man and the Oros Man will make a special appearance, while Tango the Toucan, the Bird Gardens mascot, will also be there to meet and have his picture taken with his friends. Have your face painted, watch the funny stilt walker with his marionette, or try and decipher the mime artist’s secret messages, Apr 27

    Johannesburg Zoo Saxonwold, Apr 27-May 1.

    National Zoological Gardens (Pretoria Zoo) Pretoria, Apr 27-May 1.

    RESTAURANTS WITH PLAY AREAS


    All the following restaurants have play areas for kids and are open from throughout the Freedom Day weekend through until May 1.

    The Silver Birch Randpark Ridge
    Situated at Lifestyle Garden Centre opposite the playground so your kids can play while you have a  light meal.

    Doppio Zero Restaurant, Cnr Bellair and Malibongwe Drives Northriding
    Has a supervised play area kids can use in the shopping centre while their parents enjoy their meal. They’re offering free kids pizzas when the parents buy a meal on  Friday evenings.

    Cornish Kettle Teagarden, Irene
    The Cornish Kettle is a tea garden, restaurant and kiddies birthday party venue offering secure outdoors playground and a large duck pond. Services include themed party packs, kiddies meals menu and duck feeding. Variety of popular themes available. Fully catered adult meals, snacks and drinks

    Villa San Giovanni Pretoria,
    Join as at our family friendly restaurant to enjoy delicious traditional Italian food. Kids are also welcome in our special dedicated play area with jungle gyms, traffic area, swings etc.


    MARTIAL ARTS CAMP

    Alchemy Training Camp – Apr 27-30 in Rustenburg.
    3 days & nights of martial arts training covering self defense, syllabus work and weapons training. All training, meals accommodation and adventure activities included as well as a game drive. Educational and fun, Under 13 and under 18yr olds

    PARENTING HELP

    Parenting Workshops, Bright Start Early Intervention Centre, Saxonwold coming up in May  and June. R300 per couple or R150 and most workshops covered by medical aid. They have:
    Dunstan Baby Language, workshops: Learn to meet your baby’s needs quickly and efficiently by recognising the early sound patterns babies use to communicate.
    Child birth education workshops